Isabella
Mata
Period
7
Imagine
someone just nearly losing life form a doctor’s mistake in surgery and only a
couple months later into recovering a doctor tells them that they have been
diagnosed with cancer. That is exactly what happened to Robert Mata.
On March 19, 2012, Robert Mata was informed
that he had stage three Multiple Myeloma. Multiple Myeloma is a type of blood
cancer that if found in the bone marrow. This type of cancer is uncommon and
happens to be only found in one in 143 people and unfortunately Robert Mata
happened to be one of them.
According to Robert Mata the cancer was detected
when a doctor had noticed that his blood work was off and told him to go to a
cancer specialist. After running numerous of test the doctor detected little
holes in his spine and if that wasn’t treated soon his spine could snap due to
the weak bone. The doctor had called him back in to tell him the results.
"My
first thought after the doctor had told me that I have been diagnosed with
cancer was what can we do to treat it," said Robert Mata.
Although
Robert Mata had past experiences with cancer before he never had even thought
that he would be diagnosed with cancer himself. His mom had ovarian cancer and
his farther had prostate cancer. Betsy Mata, his wife, had breast cancer a
couple years before he was diagnosed.
“It was hard to believe the news because we
just got back on our feet only to be pushed back done,” said Betsy.
Apparently
Betsy received a call from the doctor who told her that Robert had Multiple
Myeloma a week before Robert himself actually found out.
"I was shocked and in disbelief when I
heard the news that he was diagnosed with cancer,” Betsy said. "Even
though I did anticipate the outcome of test. I was still hoping that it wasn’t going
to be cancer."
Although
Betsy anticipated the outcome his son, Cameron Mata who was only in 8th grade
at the time, didn't expect anything like this. He was only a child when his mom
was going through Breast cancer and didn't think that his family would be
pulled back into the world of daily hospital visits and chemotherapy treatments
again.
"I was shock to say the lease,” said Cameron.
“He told me that I would have to be the man of the house and take care of my
little sister and mom."
With his
caregiver being his wife and his support group being his children, Robert
started his first Stem Cell Transplant in the beginning of August in 2012.
“ All that
mattered is that we had faith and family with us,” said Cameron.
Robert
daily schedule required daily visits to the Southern Methothodes Hospital in
San Antonio. There he went through days of chemotherapy and spent most of his
time sitting on hospital beds rather then his bed at home.
"The
doctors had froze my stem cells and it looked like a bag full of frozen
blood," said Robert.
After the stem cells were frozen the rotors
gave him chemo through an IV for a couple days before leaving back to were his
family was staying to in will return the next day. The nurse had to use a big
needle slowly put the stem cells back through his arm. This process was
repeated for 15 days straight.
“The needle
that she used look to be about 12 inches long and 2 inches in diameter,” Robert
explained.
Robert was required to wear a mask to and
from the hospital and was told to avoid anybody who was sick due to his
extremely weak immune system. Even though this was a long process Robert stayed
motivated everyday.
"What kept me motivated everyday was the
thought of living and staying alive, “said Robert.
This experience
made Robert realize that people had it worst then him. There were so many people
at that hospital that had a worst type of cancer that they were fighting.
"I met so many amazing people at the
hospital who I really connected to because they understood what I was going though,”
Robert said. “All the people were so young and just gave off good vibes and we
always kept on fighting though cancer together."
Although in every situation there are some ups and downs. There were times when
Robert and Betsy were separated from their children for weeks at time. Their
children would be all the way at home in Austin while they would be in San
Antonio. But the bad times only made Robert appreciate the good times even more.
"I had to become really responsible when
my parents were away and that meant growing up and not being a kid anymore,” said
Cameron.
This whole experience was life changing and
left an impact on everybody. And after the first stem cell transplant he was
told that he had to do another one due to having a certain type of chromosome
that had fought off the first stem cell transplant. But he was so happy to have
his family there by his aide for all this time.
"I stayed positive because I felt that I
needed to show my family that everything was going to be okay and that I would
not give up." said Robert. “I had no doubt in my mind that I would not die
form this cancer."
He has been fighting cancer for four years
now and is finally in remission but he will continue and never stop fighting
with his loving family by his side.
“I will never
stop fighting in till cancer is only a word used to describe monsters inside of
a nightmare instead of a sickness inside reality,” Robert said.
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